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Why Dating For Me Is Different From Everyone Else

Looking for love with Cerebral Palsy

Dating has always been a challenging part of my life, mainly because of all of the misconceptions guys seem to have about my medical condition. I have spastic cerebral palsy and use a wheelchair, which has led me to have some unusual experiences in the dating world. Cerebral Palsy may make some everyday tasks difficult for me, but I do not allow it to stop me from living my dreams. I’m a college student working towards a degree in English literature. I have dreams and desires. And like any typical 23-year-old, I date.

Dating with cerebral palsy

Dating with cerebral palsy is a huge challenge. One of the biggest misconceptions that guys my age seem to have is that if you date a person with a disability, you automatically become that person's caregiver. They assume they have to take responsibility for me when the reality is that I’m a strong, independent woman who just happens to use a wheelchair. All I want is a significant other who will love me unconditionally and see past my disability. I dream of simply enjoying my time with someone without them treating me like I’m fragile or “too much.” I strongly believe that the reason why dating is so hard for people with disabilities is that society objectifies and misunderstands us. People tend to label people like me instead of seeing us for all that we are. They believe that we will never amount to anything because of our physical needs. This makes it harder for me to step out of my comfort zone and open up to guys I’m into because I’m always afraid that they’ll see me as a diagnosis instead of a person.

Finding love with with cerebral palsy

Fortunately, my dating story has a happy ending. A few months ago, I met a young man who has the same condition as I do. We developed a deep connection and recently started dating. I love that we understand each others’ needs and don’t pay attention to the social stigma against people with disabilities. Still, I hope that we can end misconceptions about disabilities so that other single people like me can find their “happily ever after.”

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I am a 26-year-old born with Cerebral Palsy. Although my condition has affected my mobility, it has never affected my will and determination to make a difference in the world. Through my many life challenges and obstacles, I have discovered a passion for writing. My goal in life is to share my stories with the world. In doing so, I hope to help others with disabilities realize that they, too, have the potential to make their dreams come true.

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Why Dating For Me Is Different From Everyone Else

Dating has always been a challenging part of my life, mainly because of all of the misconceptions guys seem to have about my medical conditi
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